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Jamie's avatar

Sincerely, thank you so much for your detailed deep dives into how wrong these articles are. I don't have the capacity to read all the misinformation out there, but I get exposure to what's being pushed by you along with the perfect, well-thought, rebuttals to give to anyone who cites these talking points to me! Your work is phenomenal. Thank you for writing!

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Keith Aron's avatar

I went through puberty in the early 1980s in a rural community where the possibility of transitioning was about as likely as relocating to the moon. When I was 12, I was a trans kid who was put on medication. Not puberty blockers (I don't know if those even existed back then), but antidepressants, because puberty plunged me into a major clinical depressive episode.

I couldn't have told you I was a trans kid back then, because there was no language or concept and I also sensed it wasn't safe that I felt like a boy. The changes in my body were simply horrifying and terrifying. I didn't know how to cope, and my shame about my body put me into a deep freeze. My mind was aswirl with confusion about what was happening. But my 12-year-old body wasn't confused. It knew it wasn't a cis body, and so it put itself in a state of deep rest (depressed). It was another 35 years before I found the words and means to get the gender affirming care I needed. I'm incredibly grateful I lived long enough to get it.

I'm so glad that things have changed since I was a kid. Yet we have such a distance to go.

I long for a society where we support parents in teaching their kids to trust their intuition and the wisdom of their bodies. A society where we've normalized talking about bodies and where there is a clear and consistent understanding that one's experience of gender is subjective and personal and need not be a threat or an affront to anyone else.

Thank you, as always, for your excellent efforts to rebut and refute the rampant and harmful dis and mis information swirling about like so many dust funnels out there.

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